My Saturdays now mostly involve sitting in some village hall/farm park/soft play whilst Molly attends yet another party. I kid you not, that girl has a much better social life than me!
Since starting pre-school Molly gets invited to a lot of parties and that is only set to increase once she starts school properly. The issue of inviting every class member is probably a discussion in its own right!
When it comes to choosing a gift for the birthday girl or boy I do struggle. Often I won’t really know the child so don’t know what they do or don’t like. There is also the question over how much do you spend. After discussions with friends we have decided £5 – £10 is acceptable and then we sometimes spend more if it is close friend.
As life inevitably gets in the way I find that the day before said party I normally realise I don’t have a present. To try and combat this I have started what my mum used to call the ‘Present Cupboard’. Basically a drawer filled with suitable gifts for all Molly’s friends. This isn’t to say I haven’t put thought in to them, just that the thought went in ahead of the birthday invite being issued! It’s worked a treat so far and so I thought I would share my favourite buys that are sure to delight the kids (and parents!).
Books
I don’t think you can go far wrong with a good book or two. I do try to hunt out slightly more unusual title’s for fear that most of Molly’s friends will now have the entire Julia Donaldson collection! I keep an eye out on Book People for great deals or in little independent book shops. We recently came across this fabulous ‘Hidden in the Woods’ book in a small record shop for just £10. It’s a bit like 3D glasses except you look through a different colour to reveal different images as you read the stories. So interactive and fun. ‘The Day The Crayons Quit’ by Oliver Jeffers is another great choice. We also love the Herve Tullet books such as Game in the Dark or Press Here. Anything that is a bit fun and creative seems to work for me.
Jigsaw
For the younger kids a good jigsaw is a great option. I love the Melissa and Doug chunky puzzles or Molly adores their dressing up ones. Molly also received a world map puzzle which she enjoys although I will admit that a good old Disney Princess one is her favourite.
Craft Kit
You may know that I love a crafting session! So it’s no surprise I often give craft kits as presents. I try to opt for something that won’t have parent’s groaning at the chaos so a kit for them to make or do is a great option. I love the Seedling kits which can be pricey but keep an eye out for offers and deals. I picked up quite a few on Achica last year which are ideal. Otherwise I think I nice set of crayons or pens and a colouring book is always a safe choice.
Accessories
I try to keep a stash of accessories like fun backpacks, mini bags or hair accessories. Accessorize is great for all kinds of fun items.
Playmobil
My girls both love Playmobil and I think it is one of those toys that you would mostly be happy to receive. Plus you can get a cute set for around £5. I stock up on the carry case sets as they are only £10 (or often on offer on Amazon) as they are the ideal size and price. Everything from unicorns and pixies to emergency services.
Games
A fun little game is a great gift. Molly received this shopping game for her last birthday and it has become a firm favourite. Simple to play and lots of fun. I also love this Animal Heads and Tails game from Little Maldod. So much fun.
Do you have any favourite presents to give and receive? And what do you think is an acceptable price point for nursery and class friends?
My absolute go-to birthday present for 3+ is Hungry Hippos – it’s simple and fast enough that they understand it and they love making them eat the balls! It is normally on offer around a tenner which works out perfectly in terms of pricing too – we have close friends’ children we spend more on but that’s about my limit for general gift buying.
How could I not have thought of hungry hippos before. You are a genius! x
Books!
Publishers Workshop for bargain craft supplies and sometimes books, but I like to support indie book shops when possible- I always choose a favourite from my own childhood like Percy the Park Keeper as they are lovely but not as classic as an Ahlberg etc. That series can be seasonal too, which is fun.
Playmobil and Lego are genius as it kinda doesn’t matter if they have it already- more the merrier!
Also, Schleich toys. I’m in raptures as just got 100 of them on eBay for less than £1 each second hand. Will wash and repurpose- keeping most but think they will look super cute ribbon attached to gifts. Does that make me a cheapskate?
Not at all a cheapskate. That is a bargain! I love Schliech animals and have an ever growing collection. We have nephews who love the Schliech dinosaurs too. And I now need to get Percy the Park Keeper! xxx
What age did your children start going to parties? Zach is 2 and so far has been to 3. At £10 a pop I can see how it could start to add up over the year. I’m not planning on having parties for Zach until he is around 5 as that’s when I started once I was at school. Also no one seems to have parties at home anymore! My friends with older children have also said how it can get quite competitive with the other mums at the school has any one else found that. Also heard recently when a child of a friend had a party and invited a limited number of class friends recently, parents of children not invited complained to the school! In terms of pressies though we are really lucky to have a fantastic independent toy shop in our town. They have a fab range of toys under a tenner
It is a minefield Helen! I really struggle as actually Molly would be happy with a few friends and some jelly and ice cream. I have managed to do that until last year when she turned 4. I had been planning the same but a friends little boy turns 4 the day after and decided to have a big party at a local farm park. I’m so indecisive/easily persuaded so ended up doing both!! Not cheap and Molly preferred the Jelly and Ice Cream party! This year I am reverting back to a tea party at home with a few friends and family. So much easier. The parties are already becoming very elaborate that she gets invited to (DJs, magicians etc etc) so I figure I’m not going to compete with that and we never had it as kids and didn’t mind. xx
Thank you, this is really handy! Do you have any ideas for alternative Easter gifts? My nephews are 6 weeks and 2 1/2 so want something non-chocolaty!
There are so many cute Easter ideas out there. You can’t go wrong with a little Jelly Cat rabbit or chick or how about a cute Peter Rabbit money box? Still bunny related but gets much more use than a chocolate egg. Or even a couple of lovely books such as Guess How Much I love you or the Velveteen Rabbit. xx
Love this… Great ideas for future parties.
We have just spent the last 6 Sunday’s at birthday parties and with the last 2 parties being twins it has cost a small fortune!
Gosh, 6 weeks on the trot is good going! I’m impressed x
I run a children’s parties/entertainment company, and so have hunted for and bought many a birthday present (also prizes for pass the parcel etc)
If anyone lives near to a B&M homestore, they are fab! Toys, books, craft sets, dressing up clothes and toys etc all at great prices (we almost never spend over £5) Lots of branded toys too, so if you’re buying a present for your own little one’s birthday I would take a look there first as they often have the latest must haves but a lot cheaper than anywhere else!
B&M is great for kids toys! Good tip. xx
I’m a huge fan of the Tinkerlab book – I put some bits in with it that are needed (pipe cleaners, plastic cups) for my niece so I think it would be a bit pricey for a fellow preschooler but in case anyone has a particularly special preschooler to treat.
When I’m not feeling satisfactorily homespun and don’t make my own playdough, Early Learning Centre always has fab deals on Soft Stuff.
Also, please don’t hate me but this: http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B0002CYSQ8?keywords=quacetti%20saxoflute&qid=1458062686&ref_=sr_1_sc_1&sr=8-1-spell I have found to be universally adored by 2-4 year olds. Less adored by parents, relatives and anyone within a 5 mile radius.
Ha ha ha Rebecca. That last one made me chuckle. Mainly as Molly attended a party on Sunday (yes more parties) and in the party bag was a whistle that she has continually blown for the last 2 days. My ears hurt a lot! x
This is such a well timed post, my friend and I were just discussing good present ideas for little people today- thank you for some great ideas as it can be tricky! We also thought toys for the beach and garden (Melissa and Doug again have a great range) were a good choice as they have the advantage of not cluttering the house- yes us mums weren’t only thinking of the kids! x
Garden games are a great idea. Alice had a fab little watering can last year and it was one of her favourites. Plus stays outside! xx
The Works are always a good shout for books and craft bits…they have 8 books for £10 at the moment online…not necessarily the old classics but a book is never a bad gift in my eyes. Also our local Sainsburys always seems to have really good discounts on toys, I picked up puzzles, tubes of mini dinosaurs, and a little wooden farm all for under £3 each!! The present cupboard is the way forward…
Great tips Lucette. I had forgotten about The Works. I now need to work on a card cupboard too. For some reason I’ve mastered the presents but then forget the cards! x