We are only a few short days away the big Christmas extravaganza. I may be ever so slightly excited. Having young children just makes it all that more magical. Their little faces are full of excitement at every new experience. From putting the tree up to decorating the Christmas cake. And of course the all important visit to Santa. I love it all.
It’s hard to keep them calm at the moment and I don’t think that was helped by taking them for a playdate with Mabel where they got to play dress up in pretty Monsoon outfits, twirl around, throw baubles and eat far too many chocolate biscuits. Well, we did need to bribe them to stand still for the photos somehow!
When it comes to Christmas one of the most fun parts are the traditions we have year in year out. Be that nativity plays, Christmas films or prosecco quaffing at 7am. There are so many traditions from my own childhood that I want to recreate with them but it’s also important to forge our own as our little family of four. I always feel somewhat nostalgic when I look back at my own childhood Christmas’. I remember feeling a sort of sense of loss when I started spending Christmas with Edd and splitting our time between our respective families. I yearned for a year waking up at my mum’s house and spending the whole day there from start to turkey coma induced finish. I guess that is why making these new traditions are important. I want the girl’s to have that same warm fuzzy glow.
For me my absolute favourites were watching Santa Claus the movie on Christmas Eve whilst snuggled in our PJs and most importantly the midnight opening of the stockings with my sister. The girls may be a bit young for the midnight present opening but we will most definitely be watching Santa Claus. Christmas morning was a chaos of present opening by the tree and a yummy Sara Lee Pecan Danish (tres sophisticated back in the 80s) before a walk to the local village pub where we met up with friends for present sharing and festivities.
One of my favourite things about Christmas Day is donning our best party frocks. As a kid we would always rush upstairs and come back dressed in every possible new item including the knickers and socks that had been left in our stocking! It was mandatory. This year the girls are going to be wearing the prettiest tutu dresses complete with prerequisite sparkle. I don’t tend to go for the reds and greens but instead they have these beautiful swan dresses from Monsoon. Molly has been asking to wear it every day.
We will then be pulling on our coats, hats and gloves to follow my old traditions of a walk ending at the pub of course to wish a Merry Christmas to all our friends. Luckily it’s only a few doors away so I’ll be able to dash back to check the turkey!
Charlotte
As Mabel is only just old enough to semi understand Christmas I want to make our own traditions for the big day. I’m thinking of waking up (at let’s face it, whatever time Mabel decides to – she is our in-house alarm clock) making hot chocolate, putting on some festive tunes and opening the presents under the tree. This year Mabel’s gift list included “A Yoyo, a torch and…a black swan”. The first two requests were easy (and inexpensive!) but the third well, I have NO idea how to make THAT happen (!) Wish me luck!
Fern
We’d always open our stockings from Father Christmas in our PJs on my parents bed early on Christmas morning – we’d still do it now if it wasn’t awkward with other halves being involved 😉 I’m really looking forward to doing this with Elle in a few days time (!) as she really ‘gets’ it this year.
Lauren
Every year is entirely different so we don’t have traditions as such.
Though when Han and I were little we used to get an extra present from my Granny and Grandad – they used to hide them and we used to play ‘How warm you are, or how cold you are (getting warmer as you got nearer to the present). I absolutely loved it and will be playing with my niece, Felicity, this year.
Lorna
When I was little my mum used to save a present for the evening called the Christmas Tree Present! It was only something small, either a pair of gloves, new socks, flannel or smellies, but we used to love it. I swear there was as much excitement and anticipation for this small gesture as there was for the mornings main presents. I’ve not adopted this tradition in my own house, but reminiscing about it now I’m definitely questioning why.
Also my mum still to this day buys me a Rupert Annual from Father Christmas. I hope I’m never too old to receive one.
I hope that has got you a bit (more) excited for Sunday. As always please do share your favourite Christmas traditions with us?
All outfits from Monsoon.
Charlotte – we have black swans here in Australia… not quite sure how to get one to you in time for Christmas… but it’s a start! 🙂 x
We always opened our presents in turns youngest to oldest, taking time to appreciate the giving as much as the receiving. We are at MILs this year and they are a rip household and it still hurts a bit that the presents are opened in an hour and it’s done with. At my parents we would open some, have breakfast, open some more etc. Trying to figure out how to make her appreciate each present, even the small gloves and hair grips will be harder I think.
I know this post is blatently sponsored by Monsoon but I really love those hairgrips for the girls. Less keen on any form of tutu but the Pjs are lovely.
Rebecca, we were a turn each kind of family too. It did take some time though as there were four kids. My mum once tried to make us do it with the stocking gifts too but realised we would still be there at bedtime if she carried that one so it soon just became for ‘big’ presents. I need to introduce this for the girls as it’s currently a free for all and over in about 5 minutes flat.
Also, Glad you like the hair clips 🙂 xxx
Charlotte – http://thismodernlife.co.uk/products/soft-toy-swan-black
Not sure if it would arrive before Christmas though! Xx
Hello, we would open our Father Christmas presents in the morning, followed by a lovely cooked breakfast. Then we’d head to Church and then to the pub to meet friends. Christmas dinner would be about 3pm, after which we would settle by the tree and one of us (i’m one of 5) would be chosen to hand out the presents from friends and family and take turns opening them. It certainly made sure that we all helped clear up after dinner quickly! It also meant we had this to look forward to throughout the day. Now I have my own children, I continue this tradition, (particularly enjoying a glass of fizz by the tree). My parents are Irish, and I think this tradition stems from their region. Then it’s time to watch Christmas TV.
Andrea this sounds blissful. We used to go to church on Christmas Day too and I’ve always loved sense of joy it brings. Have a lovely Christmas 🙂
I love the present requests Charlotte! Anna loves playing with a torch but on her list were olives, yogurt, dinosaur hat and shoes. Good luck with the black swan. As it’s our first Christmas at home we are trying to figure out our own traditions while merging british and czech ones. We are going to have a czech christmas dinner on Christmas eve followed by a few presents from baby Jesus and then presents from Father Christmas/Santa in the morning with Turkey for lunch. I’d like to think we’ll manage a walk on Christmas day but we shall see. I’m trying not to have too many expectations and just enjoy the day as it happens.
No opening presents (except stockings) until you’ve eaten your breakfast! The cruelty of that when you’ve just scoffed a chocolate orange from your stocking and your mum is forcing cheerios down you! Yet I intend to inflict this on S too…. anything to spread the day out and maybe get a bit longer in bed!
Chocolate orange. Yum. x
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Would arrive tomorrow if appropriate delivery option chosen!!
We don’t have any Christmas traditions, it was get up, rip open presents and then do what ever you want until lunch was ready. My dad tended to do more exciting stuff for our birthday, like one year (when I got too old for presents) he put money in balloons and stuck them to the ceiling and I had to pop them with a nail stuck to the end of the broom handle, some had money in some had confetti. How he did it I’ll never know, but it was awesome.
We always have a sort of buffet tea on Christmas Eve – nibbles, dips and drinks – and watch either Elf or Bad Santa. It’ll be Elf this year, as I don’t think Billy Bob Thornton would be a good influence on my 2 year old! My mum and dad always allowed us to open one present each before bed on Christmas Eve, so I have adopted this tradition by getting Zoe a Christmas Eve box from Not on the High Street. We start Christmas Day with present opening, bucks fizz and mini breakfast treats. This year I have bacon and egg cups, mini croissants and fruit salad. We always save a couple of presents for after lunch, and I put a small gift at everyone’s place setting too.
Love those swan tutus, going to the Monsoon website now! Also, Charlotte – maybe this would satisfy Mabel’s swan desires…http://www.mollymeg.com/shop/all/swans/
Merry Christmas everyone (just a little bit excited)! 🙂
You’ve just reminded me that I’m sure we also opened one present on Christmas Eve to keep us quiet! I might do something similar too. I really need to up my Christmas breakfast game. So far we have toast!! Super excited too. It’s Christmas!! xx
Lorna – we have Christmas tree presents too!! I’ve never met anyone else who does, but I love the idea – something little left over for when you’ve opened everything else and are mid-slump post-dinner. I will definitely be carrying this over to my own family Christmasses (starting next year when our bub will be here!).
Yay Katie G. It’s definitely a cute idea isn’t it. So lovely that you’ll be carrying it on next year with your own little one. xxx
We always opened our stockings in PJs on my parents bed. My sister (33) insists we still do this although it now involves my bed plus my husband, children and my mum. My husband & brother-in-law only felt awkward (everyone piling in together) for a couple of years… 😉
To be fair since I had kids we do let the men bring chairs and the ladies & kids dad pile in together!
ps the girls look beautiful in these pics, the one of Mabel with the Chanel bag is stunning!
So funny that your husbands get involved now. LOVE. Mabel definitely loves her Chanel but then who wouldn’t?! x
We have so many but we’re at the in laws this year so I’m going to have to let go of my idea of Christmas which is hard.
Both hubby and I have European heritage so we celebrate Christmas Eve. With my family we would always have a jacket potato for lunch with pickled herring (or beans and cheese for the non herring lovers!) We have a long leisurely dinner with the extended family with about five courses, sounds a lot but is less than the traditional twelve!! Then the children all go upstairs to wait for the first star to come out which means Father Christmas has been. It’s usually a late night, staying up to open and play with the presents which always felt so special when I was younger.
Now we have two children ourselves and we’re trying to figure out how to combine the traditions that are important to us personally as well as creating our own.
Oh I love the idea of waiting for the first star. So cute. I hope you find a way to combine all the traditions as I think it’s so important to keep the one’s you loved from your own childhood x
We’re a ‘no presents until dressed and breakfasted’ family too. It spreads out the day a bit! The kids will get up super early and have their stockings, then we’ll make sure everyone is dressed in their finery (new outfits for the children, can’t quite run to a taffeta and velvet number of the sort my mum used to make in the 80s, mind…). Presents are opened one at a time, youngest to oldest.
I love Christmas so much. I’m so extremely excited!
Would it be highly inappropriate to ask where Mrs O’Shea’s cardigan/coat is from? It’s lush!
Ayda, it’s also from Monsoon. They have some good knitwear! http://uk.monsoon.co.uk/view/product/uk_catalog/mon_1,mon_1.84/1428240854
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I think I need to buy it too, especially as it’s called the ‘Fern’ cardigan! x
http://thismodernlife.co.uk/products/soft-toy-swan-black
Charlotte this one is beautiful xxx
I adore Xmas now I have two little ones. We have a Xmas eve box the elf leaves. Includes pjs, hot choc, book and a movie. All things to make us sit and snuggle ready for bed on Xmas eve. Stocking f in the morning in my mums bedroom still complete with all our partners and children! That will be 13 people in the bedroom this year! ??
I now want this black swan for myself. I’m so copying Mabel! x
We decorate grandma’s tree on the first Sunday in December with our daughter putting the angel on top signifying the start of Christmas. Christmas Eve we attend Christingle then home for hot chocolate, festive movie and daughter gets a Christmas Eve box full of goodies